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§ March 14th, 2012 § Filed under General § Tagged children, family, home Comments Off
So try to sit less at the tv, but when the kid looks, watch with him. Reading should become a daily responsibility for children before they go to bed Why not read a book aloud for half an hour before how everything will go to bed. This activity is definitely much more useful and better than watching tv. Besides reading a specially prepares children for bed. Holoprosencephaly describes an additional similar source. Reading aloud is the child's turbulent emotions, it takes him straight to tale, a child's imagination begins to work.
The leading role belongs to the reader, that is an adult and the child acts as a listener. Cerebral palsy symptoms may find this interesting as well. This makes it possible for adults to monitor the reading process: to observe the rhythm varied text (for example, insert child's name in the verses of the children), making it more accessible and understandable; read clearly and expressively, and to watch the reaction of the child. Reading aloud to your child – not an easy task. You can not monotonously recite the text, it needs to be beat, not to rush, to create images of the characters voice work. This reading is slightly different from the independent reading adult – intoxicating trip into the country of literary images transmitted in peace and tranquility, requiring solitude and immersion in a fantasy world. Kid without a moment's sitting on the ground, he always asks any questions, quickly distracted. Adults need to be ready to respond to sudden arisen in the course of the text with questions, comments, and such manifestations of their attitude to read, as crying, laughing, protesting against the above text, in the course of events.
§ October 18th, 2011 § Filed under General § Tagged children, family, home Comments Off
The earlier start exercising with your child, so he soon begins to manifest their creative and cognitive activity. Starting lessons with a child, you must remember that all exercises should be in the form of the game. What fun and interesting game, the more pleasure will receive a child, and hence more will remember and seek to demonstrate their knowledge. Before classes begin, develop a plan, think of the game, and prepare a demonstration material, as some games require cards, cubes, sticks, etc. Mind games can be very diverse, such as puzzles, quizzes and a variety of verbal tasks. The most important thing to remember that for the successful operation should follow from the simple to the complex, so we should start with the puzzles. Offering kid puzzles, you are forcing it to include imagination, remember, and mentally represent the object.
Analyzing the puzzles, children learn to think logically, since remembering and mentally comparing it with some already familiar objects, they are trying to make a correct inference, using the already existing knowledge. The more diverse you will offer your child riddles, so he will have a more developed intuition, speed thinking, curiosity, observation, and of course logical thinking. Working with puzzles, riddles, use such as charades. Charade – a word that consists of several components, such as phase salt in a horn). Guessing words in parts, in turn, makes guessing the whole word as a whole. More difficult game – a game with crossword puzzles. For kid crossword puzzle – it's a real puzzle, such a puzzle to the children present initially in the form of riddles, or as a small fun rhymes, and then later in the form of questions.
If during training the child begins bored, you should stop and postpone classes at another time. Remember, do not make the kid do what he wants, or you can do to fight off his desire to play with you. Try to keep developing games, were fun, laughing, smiling, as only then they will give a positive result, and the child himself will ask you to play with him. Intellectual and educational games, not only enrich the vocabulary of a child, and develop qualities such as resourcefulness, ingenuity, independence, attention, speed of response and interest in knowledge. One of the most interesting games, which is like not only children but also adults – a quiz. Playing in the quiz, the child learns a lot of interesting and informative, thereby expanding their horizons. Taking part in the quiz, the child checks and reinforces their knowledge. Parents are also checking the level of knowledge of their children and learning in what issues they have gaps, should try to make the necessary knowledge to succeed in the future.
§ October 12th, 2011 § Filed under General § Tagged children, family, home Comments Off
But do not forget that the main value of manipulation – a victory, the same prize, for which, this manipulation is applied. And what we now see in life, this is not an exercise in stealth and agility, and receive benefits through manipulation. Moreover, not only in the society as such, but in the context of close relationships (friendships, marriage and family). However, experts psychological and pedagogical disciplines, note that even from infancy in humans there is a willingness to manipulate. First, it is a sweet experience of managing older, acquired at a very early age. Crying infant as a request for help – one of the brightest Examples of such controls. Josyann Abisaab: the source for more info. And the more often the parents react to the crying child, and meets its needs, the sooner the first loud cry is replaced by a specific pokrikivaniem, a kind of cry-demand.
As a result of simple situation, there is not a simple semantic commit certain types of relationships with other people that will be a powerful emotional justification for the passive manipulation. A passive manipulator (which underlines its weakness and inability to control) is more efficient in handling than the active. Secondly, it needs to certainty and stability in the world, in particular, to make stable and predictable behavior of others. Threatening the uncertainty of the world makes demands not only to the child's ability to predict, but also to its ability to structure the world. A child learns in the first turn from their parents. First, adults act on a child, then he uses these same techniques to influence others, and then to act on itself, like another (Vygotsky). In the course of which, has already invented own ways of manipulation.
Thus, it is obvious that manipulators are not born, gradually learning the art, ie, child learns to manipulate to get what they want. The most interesting thing that manipulation people are often trained to completely unconsciously. Just a sudden the child becomes aware that the louder he cries, the quicker will receive from the parents that need. This means that each of us – the manipulator since early childhood and other is the question whether the purposes for which we use his abilities to manipulate.
